I was having a conversation with a friend last week about her recent engagement. I asked her if her relationship was extraordinary. She said some parts were and other parts weren’t. I then pointed out that if her entire relationship was not extraordinary that she was not with her soul mate. She told me that she didn’t believe tha…t extraordinary was possible in all aspects of a relationship. It was sad to hear her say that she was willing to settle for someone that was not her soul mate…for someone that was less than extraordinary in all aspects of their relationship.
Ultimately, I know not everyone “get’s it”. Not everyone will accept the concept that you can have extraordinary in all aspects of a relationship. Some people, for what ever reason, will settle. In the end, it is up to you to decide what you want in a relationship. If you are willing to wait, you can find extraordinary. If you are not willing to wait, you will end up settling for less than your soul mate.
If you don’t believe in soul mates, that is fine. The only thing we ask is that you approach the possibility with an open mind. It is too easy to settle into a relationship that is good…but not extraordinary. It is always easier to stay where you are at than to move on and keep searching. The best relationship for you will eventually come your way. Will you be available to meet an extraordinary mate or will you be in the wrong relationship and miss your opportunity?