These statements make the assumption that all the good men and women are taken and that you can’t possibly find the love you are looking for. If you believe that extraordinary love just doesn’t exist anymore, maybe you’re right. Let’s just assume for a minute that you believe this. How does that make you feel knowing that you will never experience the love of your life? I don’t know about you, but that sounds pretty depressing to me.
For those of us that grew up in dysfunctional homes (which is about 85% of us), relationships are just as challenging and sadly we never got to experience the joy of seeing our parents deeply in love.
A change of perspective
“If you think you can or you think you can’t, you’re right!” ~ Henry Ford
Our beliefs will help us succeed or help us fail at almost anything in life. More times than not it’s our beliefs that stand in our way of success at anything; business, relationships, or love! Simply by shifting your belief system from one of scarcity to one of abundance you can start to experience greater happiness and contentment than ever before.
With the limited space we have here, it’s not easy to explain how to make this shift. It can be done and is not that difficult once you understand the process and apply it. The key is to fundamentally shift your thinking to change your current set of beliefs. Understand that everything may not be as it appears. Armed with different information, new beliefs, and a willingness to be open to new possibilities will help you advance your dating and relationship life.
If you have not had the privileged to experience an extraordinary relationship, maybe it’s time to take and inward look to re-evaluate your personal beliefs. Are they limiting you and your success with relationships?
Rick Soetebier is an Author, Blogger, Speaker and Dating Coach. He has been a student of self and relationship improvement for more than 28 years. He is an astute observer of people and relationship issues. Over time and through a relationship and marriage that ended after 25 years, Rick started to develop some of the fundamental principles that are found in his book, Dating Backward: A practical guide to dating and finding your soul mate. You can benefit from his observations, education, research and personal experience by letting him help you make better relationship decisions. Date consciously and settle for nothing less than extraordinary in your next relationship.