#180 - Back in your arms again and...again
Hi,
Welcome to this weeks Vlog. Today I share some thoughts about returning repeatedly to an ex lover. Why do you do it? What can you do to change your behavior?
Take time to get to know yourself again. Relearn who you are, what you like, what you don’t like, what YOU want in life. It isn’t until you can be comfortable with being alone with you that you are actually ready to start dating seriously again. It’s okay to date in the meantime. Just make sure your date knows that you’re not read for anything serious and that the best you have to offer is friendship.
If that’s a Deal Breaker for them, that’s okay. Enjoy your time getting back in touch with you. Remember, it’s all about you getting emotionally healthy and nothing more.
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