#398 - Is Modern Dating Driving You Crazy?
Are you tired of swiping left, getting ghosted, and feeling like you’re stuck in a never-ending cycle of dating disappointment? You’re not alone. Modern dating has become an emotional rollercoaster for so many singles, leaving even the most optimistic people feeling frustrated and disheartened.
The truth is, dating in the digital age has completely changed the game. Ghosting, breadcrumbing, and an overwhelming number of choices have made it harder than ever to build meaningful relationships. And while dating apps and social media have brought convenience and connection, they’ve also brought a new level of chaos, where superficiality often takes center stage.
So, how did we get here?
The Chaos of Modern Dating
Let’s start with the obvious: technology has transformed the way we meet people. With just a swipe, you can connect with hundreds (or thousands!) of potential matches. But this convenience comes with a downside. It’s easy to fall into a mindset of “What if someone better is just a swipe away?”
This fear of missing out (FOMO) creates a culture of disposability, where people are quick to move on at the first sign of imperfection. Add to that the pressure to present a curated, picture-perfect online persona, and you’ve got a recipe for miscommunication, unrealistic expectations, and inauthentic connections. No wonder so many singles feel like they’re going crazy!
Why It Feels So Overwhelming
Have you ever spent hours scrolling through profiles only to end up on one disappointing date after another? Or been ghosted by someone you thought had real potential? You’re not alone in feeling exhausted by the entire process.
The sheer volume of choices can leave us paralyzed, unsure of who’s worth pursuing. And the bad experiences—whether it’s being ghosted or meeting someone who’s clearly not what they seemed online—start to pile up. It’s easy to lose hope when it feels like the dating world is working against you.
How to Flip the Script
Here’s the thing: modern dating isn’t inherently broken. It’s just that our expectations and approaches haven’t evolved with the times. Instead of viewing dating as a frustrating chore, what if you could see it as an opportunity for growth and self-discovery?
That’s exactly what I talk about in my book, Dating Backward. This isn’t your typical dating advice. It’s a guide to rethinking how you approach relationships so you can stop wasting time on the wrong people and start building meaningful connections with the right ones.
In Dating Backward, I’ll show you how to:
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Break free from the endless cycle of swiping and ghosting.
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Identify and avoid the biggest mistakes in modern dating.
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Develop a clear vision of what you want in a relationship.
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Date with confidence and purpose.
Ready to Take Control of Your Love Life?
If you’re tired of feeling like dating is something you just have to “survive,” it’s time to make a change. Dating Backward will give you the clarity and tools you need to navigate the modern dating landscape with confidence.
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Don’t let modern dating get the best of you. Take back control, rethink your strategy, and start dating intentionally. Your extraordinary relationship could be just around the corner.